Teaching Your Children About Marriage

As my husband and I embark on the wonderful journey of parenthood, I feel like our marriage is stronger than ever. I am so lucky to have such a sweet, amazing man to share my life with.  Growing up, I watched my parents marriage and felt that one day that is exactly what I wanted.  Despite being totally grossed out when they kissed and held hands in public I must say that in my own marriage these are things I cherish and I am glad that my parents had such a great example for me to look up to. If the fact that my husband kisses me or hugs me in public makes anyone uncomfortable (including my children!) then I say tough and that maybe you should try it!  As a child I was told to expect nothing but the best from a partner and I should set this example as well. No one is perfect but you must be the perfect person for your partner. Despite my raging, crazy pregnancy hormones my husband manages to be the best man he can be for me and I am so blessed that he is so understanding and caring. I have come up with a few things to show your children what a marriage should be like.

1. Respect your husband. Always.

2. Never argue in front of your children.  Even if you disagree with something he has said or done, save that conversation for later when you are alone. Always back him up in front of your children.

3. Never ever (this is a no brainer!) talk badly about your husband in front of your children or anyone for that matter. This will give your children the idea that it is okay to speak badly about their spouse in the future. Always have positive words about your husband.

4. Show physical displays of affection to your husband in front of your children. Hold hands, hug, kiss, show your children that you love each other and they will replicate this with their spouse in the future. They'll be grossed out but it provides an excellent example for the future.

5. Be the example of compromise. Always come to a mutual agreement and this will show your children that you are a united front working together.

6.  Have fun with your husband. Laugh and have a good time.  This will show your children that this is what marriage is truly all about: happiness.

Marriage is work. It's not always going to be easy but it should always be filled with love and understanding. I am a lucky woman to have had such amazing parents with an equally amazing marriage that I can use as an example in my own.  I am equally lucky to have my husband who (despite the cliche) makes me a better version of myself! I cherish my husband and my marriage and I never forget to tell him just how lucky I am to have him. I'll leave you with a photo of my husband and I last summer. Lets hope I get that body back after the baby is born!! I love you babe.